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Deborah Crosby walks away from her father's casket after its arrival to the airport Friday, May 26, 2017, in San Diego. Gregory Bull—AP
Vietnam War Navy Pilot's Remains Return to U.S. After More Than 50 Years
May 27, 2017
(SAN
DIEGO) — Deborah Crosby touched her father's flag-draped casket as her
three brothers hugged her in a tearful embrace on the tarmac at the San
Diego airport Friday — ending a more than half century search to find
and bring home the remains of Lt. Cmdr. Frederick P. Crosby, shot down
as a Navy pilot in the Vietnam War.
Deborah
Crosby, now 58, was only six when she was sent home from the first
grade to learn her father was presumed dead, though his body had not
been found.
Her
mother could never talk about that day, but she gave Crosby and her
brothers a binder with articles about her father's plane zooming low
through the clouds on a bomb damage assessment mission before it was
gunned down by North Vietnamese ground forces in 1965. The 31-year-old
pilot was armed only with cameras, his daughter said.
Crosby and her grandmother made a pact to someday bring home her father's remains and bury him in his hometown of San Diego.
A
year ago, military investigators found his remains in a fish pond in
north Vietnam. On Friday, Deborah Crosby fulfilled her promise to her
late grandmother.
Passengers watched through the windows of a Delta Air Lines jet as the flag-draped casket was removed from the hold by six sailors.
Deborah
Crosby walked forward, touched the casket and embraced her three
brothers. The aviator's elderly sister, Sharon, and brother, David, also
hugged, and he wiped an eye.
"I'm
just overwhelmed with seeing the plane drive up and all of the uniforms
and all of the respect and the honors that he's receiving," Deborah
Crosby said.
The sailors saluted before the casket left in a hearse.
On Sunday, Frederick Crosby will be buried at Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery with full military honors and a Navy flyover.
Deborah
Crosby never doubted the fact that her father was killed. But her grief
seemed to linger in a deep space inside her until she received news
that his remains had been recovered, finally giving her closure.
"It
just changed my life in so many ways," the energy consultant who lives
in New York said earlier in an interview. "It relieved a lot of sadness
that I've been carrying around in my heart very quietly."
The
U.S. military actively searches for missing service members from
conflicts worldwide. According to the National League of Families of
American Prisoners and Missing in Southeast Asia, 969 missing service
members have been accounted for since the end of the Vietnam War in
1975, while the whereabouts of 1,611 remain a mystery.
Deborah Crosby called to inquire regularly about the military's progress on her father's case.
Decades
passed and her mother and grandmother both died before investigators
got a breakthrough on their third trip to the area when they met Pham
Van Truong, a lifelong resident of Nam Ngan ward in Thanh Hoa City.
According
to a 50-page report given to Deborah Crosby, the 89-year-old man told
investigators he couldn't recall the month or year, but he remembered
during the war that he was cooking limestone to reinforce his house when
he heard gunfire and ran to the nearby levee to investigate. He saw two
planes headed toward his house, and one was on fire as it glided toward
the levee. He said he could see its wing and tail surfaces were
missing. The aircraft rolled as it hit the fish pond in front of his
house, splashing Van Truong with water and mud. The other aircraft kept
flying toward the sea.
Based
on the new information, U.S. military investigators decided to comb the
bottom of the pond in 2015. When they emptied it bucket by bucket, they
found bones, pieces of fabric from the pilot's uniform, his chrome
lighter and wedding band.
Deborah Crosby felt she could finally shed the tears stored up inside of her.
"It's
nice to be able to let out the tears and to have some relief in our
hearts," Crosby said. "And now we're able to talk about it. Before we
didn't talk much about this and now we can talk proudly and we have you
know a happier ending and we can visit my dad's gravesite."
Crosby said her brothers want to keep the fabric, lighter and wedding band.
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